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Strap-ons for fat folks

Working in a sex shop, something I realized early on is that the sex-toys industry is really not made with fat people in mind. In a society where a perfect body is a thin body, fat bodies are not seen as sexual or desirable, they are either fetishized or erased. This reality is predominant in the lingerie industry where nothing fits and the things that fits are mostly ugly. But that phenomenon repeats itself in the sex-toys industry, more precisely with strap-ons and harnesses because again, nothing fits!

My goal here is to offer options of strap-ons for fat, chubby, curvy or lucious folks like sex toys company like to say.  (Whatever words you prefer to describe yourself) My first recommendation is to go on Early to bed website because they have a category specifically for “Plus-size” harnesses!

The whole Spareparts Hardwear line goes up to 5X (56 – 60 inch or 142-152.4 cm waist). Their branding is awful but their products are amazing. Many sex-toys or prosthetic reviewers, like Uppercasechase or pillowprincessreview, often refers to Spareparts Hardware for solid and functional harnesses. They are on the pricier side, from 90$ to 150$ (Main reason why I do not have one myself), but they are sturdy and long-lasting.  For a fancy leather harnesses (Vegan or not) , the ASLAN leather line goes up to 56 inch (142cm) waist. The Jaguar and The Minx are adorable, but again they are on the pricier side, from 80$ to 200$.

For a cheaper option, sportsheets makes good quality harnesses that fits up to a 60inch waist. They have a couple of “corset” like harnesses that are well made, adjust well and give a nice femme touch. Those harnesses have more straps then the usual cheap harness so it feels more stable. It’s also padded on the sides, which is nice because straps tend to get scratchy. They also have “plus-size” harnesses line that can fits folks with waist up to 72inch, which I think is the widest size on the market! Their price range goes from 39.99$ to 59.99$ which is on the cheaper side for a well-made harness. They also have cheap harness and dildo combo from 34.99$ to 99.99$, that also fits up to a 60inch waist.

For folks that do not feel comfortable wearing a harness on their hips, there is a bunch of other options available! Strap-ons for knees, boots, face, etc. I will be specifically talking about those harnesses in my next post on Strap-ons for folks with disabilities.

So I hope that helped! Do not be shy to direct message me for specific questions or for advices on a specific product or brand!

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