So how to choose the perfect strap-on? But first … what is a strap-on? It is a sex toy you attach to yourself to engage in (potentially) sexual activities : penetrate another person, masturbate, alleviate gender dysphoria, etc. There is many kinds of strap-ons and I will try to simplify it as much as I […]
My goal with this serie on strap-ons is to make it accessible for a variety of bodies. When you walk-in a sexshop looking for strap-ons, what you will usually see on the wall are thin white able bodies doing sexy poses wearing a cheaply made harness and a plastic dong. Those models are far from […]
Working in a sex shop, something I realized early on is that the sex-toys industry is really not made with fat people in mind. In a society where a perfect body is a thin body, fat bodies are not seen as sexual or desirable, they are either fetishized or erased. This reality is predominant in […]
Did you know that there is more than one kind of harnesses? We mostly see “pelvic harnesses” in sex shops. Those are the harnesses that you attach around your pelvic area to penetrate a partner with a sex toy. Not everyone can or wants to use a harness attached to their pelvic areas. You can […]
Can you love someone deeply and not want to sleep next to them ? Is a question I ask myself too often. Because of anxiety, hypersensibility and insomnia my partner and I cannot sleep in the same bed. We usually put a single mattress next to the bed and make every night a pyjama party. […]
Here is a picture of me when I first came out. In 2014 I came out as a lesbian and I taught it was the hardest thing I ever did. Turns out it was not haha. We do not talk enough about what happens after you come out. Coming out is often pictured as the […]
Hey, I’m 35 and I just came out as a lesbian. I never had sex with a woman and it stresses me out , it makes me feel like I’m a « virgin » … how do I approach a woman ? How to feel confident in my new identity …
I’ve received a lot of questions regarding douching for anal sex in the past week, so I decided to write an article specifically on that subject! In this article I will mainly discuss how to properly douche and what is the difference between an ennema and a douche!
If you are new to anal sex or you just want a quick reminder, this article is about the basics of anal sex : getting to know what you like with masturbation, cleaning, practicing safer sex and anal sex toys!