So how to choose the perfect strap-on? But first … what is a strap-on? It is a sex toy you attach to yourself to engage in (potentially) sexual activities : penetrate another person, masturbate, alleviate gender dysphoria, etc. There is many kinds of strap-ons and I will try to simplify it as much as I […]
Working in a sex shop, something I realized early on is that the sex-toys industry is really not made with fat people in mind. In a society where a perfect body is a thin body, fat bodies are not seen as sexual or desirable, they are either fetishized or erased. This reality is predominant in […]
Here is a picture of me when I first came out. In 2014 I came out as a lesbian and I taught it was the hardest thing I ever did. Turns out it was not haha. We do not talk enough about what happens after you come out. Coming out is often pictured as the […]
If you are new to anal sex or you just want a quick reminder, this article is about the basics of anal sex : getting to know what you like with masturbation, cleaning, practicing safer sex and anal sex toys!