What a better day then the international orgasm day to post an article on affordable sex toys! A small reminder that you do not need to have an orgasm to enjoy yourself sexually. Sex toys are a good way to explore your sexuality, but they can be really expensive, therefore inaccessible. They can also be […]
So how to choose the perfect strap-on? But first … what is a strap-on? It is a sex toy you attach to yourself to engage in (potentially) sexual activities : penetrate another person, masturbate, alleviate gender dysphoria, etc. There is many kinds of strap-ons and I will try to simplify it as much as I […]
Working in a sex shop, something I realized early on is that the sex-toys industry is really not made with fat people in mind. In a society where a perfect body is a thin body, fat bodies are not seen as sexual or desirable, they are either fetishized or erased. This reality is predominant in […]
Can you love someone deeply and not want to sleep next to them ? Is a question I ask myself too often. Because of anxiety, hypersensibility and insomnia my partner and I cannot sleep in the same bed. We usually put a single mattress next to the bed and make every night a pyjama party. […]
Here is a picture of me when I first came out. In 2014 I came out as a lesbian and I taught it was the hardest thing I ever did. Turns out it was not haha. We do not talk enough about what happens after you come out. Coming out is often pictured as the […]
Hey, I’m 35 and I just came out as a lesbian. I never had sex with a woman and it stresses me out , it makes me feel like I’m a « virgin » … how do I approach a woman ? How to feel confident in my new identity …
If you are new to anal sex or you just want a quick reminder, this article is about the basics of anal sex : getting to know what you like with masturbation, cleaning, practicing safer sex and anal sex toys!